Dear Friends in Christ, 

Sunday is a “high holy day” you won’t find on the Christian calendar.  It’s Mothers’ Day.  And, it’s an important “holy day” in our society.

Why?  Many, with sentimental appreciation, say, “It’s because mothers are so full of love and have worked tirelessly raising their children.”  But, cynics say, “It’s a profitable holiday for card companies, flower shops, restaurants, and makers and retailers of Mom-friendly products – such as jewelry and digital photo-frames being pushed in recent years.”  

Both perspectives contain kernels of truth. Many mothers have worked tirelessly, raising their children in extravagant ways.  And, many have worried endlessly along the way.  But, sadly, some have not. (After all, mothers are human.)   

Many daughters and sons have gone to extravagant ends and expenditures to thank their mothers for their love. One Reddit responder calls Mother’s Day an “annual guilt-fueled ritual where society briefly acknowledges all the unpaid labor, emotional support, and mental load moms carry – with a $9 card and a mimosa.”  And, news organizations report that consumers will spend $38 billion on Mother’s Day gifts this year. (No wonder, Anna Jarvis, who founded Mother’s Day to honor mothers, later came to dislike the commercialization of the day!) 

Ultimately, the proof of what constitutes the holiness – or unholiness – of Mother’s Day is contained in the “pudding of love – and money.”   Love is and isn’t free.  The one loved benefits from love without payment.  And, love given always costs the giver something – and, sometimes, a lot.  

If you’re not attending church on Sunday because you’re a daughter or son honoring your mother’s love, or you’re a mothering being honored for your love, I hope it’s a joyous, meaning-filled day.  And, know that those of us worshipping in church will be remembering and honoring your love by thanking God! 

Blessings of Love’s Holiness – whether God-given or Human-given,
Pastor Ed